Sexual Intercourse-A Few Tips About The Quickie

By Clifton Randall

When engaging in sexual intercourse, you should take all the time that you need. Having said that, a young bull was walking with his experienced father; they happened upon a herd of grazing cows in a valley. With hormones racing the young whippersnapper said, “hey dad, let’s run down and get one!”

With the calm assurance of experience, father bull said, “no son, let’s walk down and get them all.” To all of the young wannabe bulls, it’s no longer about two pumps and a squirt. Don’t ever do that, especially the first time around; they will talk about you!

You may be stressed out on the job but remember this, the ladies are stressed out too! They also need a release. In spite of what has been said, there is room for a quickie every now and then. Quickies are an exception to the rule. As with sexual intercourse, quickies are all about timing.

Never use quickies as an alternative to normal sex. Quickies should be used to inject variety to an already great sex life. Both partners should be able to enjoy the quickie. Here are some of the ingredients that can really spice up a quickie.

A quickie must be spontaneous. Usually one partner is thrown off by the other. This sends a powerful signal to your partner that you have a strong desire for them and that you are still attracted to them. While you are having sexual intercourse, tell your partner how much you really love them. Everyone loves to know that someone desires them.

Foreplay is not meant to be used during a quickie; no time for it. Quickies are generally rough, raw, passionate, just going at each other. If you normally use condoms, remember to put one on. In addition, men should take care not to be too rough during this type of sexual intercourse because you can hurt your partner.

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9 Tips How to Read Her Sexual Language

By Coco Swan

Is she flirting? Smiling? Eye Contact? How to pick up her flirting signals. Interpreting her sexual body language has never been easier.

1: She Starts Preening: This is otherwise known as ensuring that she is looking her best. Standing up straighter, tucking in their tummies, and pushing out their breasts are spontaneous and instantaneous gestures that women are interested. This will be followed by smoothing her skirt or dress, playing with hair and jewellery, and then disappearing to the ladies room for a once over. Adjusting and checking on appearances is a great sign of body language flirting. If you catch her checking out your butt when you are on the way to the bar, or she starts fixing her hair when you turn your back, you know she is interested sexually.

2: Eyes. Her eyes say it all. A flirting woman will usually send 3 sidelong glances your way. You will get a second look to confirm they liked what they saw and a third if they are considering talking to you.

The 4 second scan. We look at uninteresting people for 3 seconds or less. A definite sign of interest is when the girl keeps throwing 4 second gazes your way.

How the flirting woman breaks your gaze. This is even more important than how she has been looking at you. If she looks to the side, or around the room, you have lost her interest. If her eyes drop to the floor before looking back up again to meet yours within 30 to 60 seconds you have a chance. Downcast eyes followed by a preening signal like playing with or tossing her hair indicate that she is liking what she is seeing.

If you are looking at her and your eyes lock, a flirting woman will often raise her upper eyelids slightly and rapidly. This is a very subtle eye opening movement that is saying, “I am looking at you.”

Zero eye communication means zero connection. Time to move on to someone else. A raised eyebrow usually indicates a question of some sort. The more you look someone in the eye, the more attractive, confident and truthful you seem.

3: Feet. Feet can be a great indicator of the flirting woman’s true feelings. Few people notice what they are doing with their feet subconsciously because they are so far away from our faces. This places them a long way up on the credibility scale.

By pointing a foot towards you, the flirting woman is saying you are welcome to join her group.

She is slightly defensive if she has one leg crossed over the other, but while one foot is still pointing at you, it is still looking okay. Once she uncrosses her legs and starts mirroring your foot position this is a better sign that she likes you. Her foot between your feet is an obvious sexual body language gesture. Better yet, if she should bend her knee and have it touching your knee or leg while you are both standing. These both suggest strong sexual flirting messages.

4: Body Posture: The flirting woman has her shoulders pulled back and her breasts thrust forward. One hand placed on a sexily jutting hip is a flirting signal for you to join her. Placing a hand on the back of a hip can also be a gesture to place emphasis on her tiny waist. Arching her spine into the shape of a ‘C’ displaying both her breasts and bottom is body language flirting, inviting you to check her out.

A strongly sexual body language signal is when she starts to lean forward bringing her arms in closer to her body, pressing her breasts together and deepening her cleavage.

Playing with her necklace is another subconscious flirting gesture. Her fiddling with her neck jewellery invites you to look at her breasts a definite erotic signal to you that she is flirting is when she starts stroking her throat, neck or upper chest. The signal is even stronger if she combines the stroking with a neck arch. By tilting her head to show you more of her neck she is implying that she is starting to trust you. Throats and necks are “lover’s zones”, places where no one else touches us. Stroking her neck or chest also draws your eyes to her breasts.

5: Playing with her hair: Fluffing her hair, running her fingers through her hair, and the strongest sign of body language flirting, tossing her hair, are all designed to show you she is available.

6: Her Legs: While sitting, women often cross their legs to look sexy, ladylike or just to show them off. The higher she crosses her legs over her thighs, the stronger the sexual signal. If she is also smiling at you, showing eye contact and is resting one hand in her lap this is extremely strong sexual body language. Smoothing hands over her thighs is another common preening sign for women when they are in the company of someone they find sexually attractive. By sitting with her legs swung out to one side she is making an obvious attempt to make her legs look longer and herself good for whoever is watching. The more frequently she crosses and uncrosses her legs while facing you, the better your chances. The more thigh she is exposing the more likely it is that she is hot for you.

If you are in a barefoot situation, she will start to walk on tiptoe if she thinks attractive men are around. By doing this it makes her legs look longer, her body slimmer, and overall, she looks more feminine.

7: Her Wrists and Palms: Women will flash their wrist at someone they are interested in. While she is playing with her hair or fiddling with an earring, check to see if her wrist is turned to face you with her palm facing out. While she is flashing her wrist at you she is saying, “You can approach me”.

8: Does she want to kiss you? If she is doing any of these then the answer is probably YES! Licking her lips. When faced with something arousing everyone licks his or her lips. Eating and drinking suggestively, sucking and licking fingers. All ways of advertising their talents. Keeps touching her mouth. Everyone’s lips become engorged when we get turned on, making us more conscious of them and more likely to play with them. Putting her head close to yours: This is nearly always an invitation to kiss. Tilting her head: Getting into position on a subconscious level.

9: Does she want more? Towards the end of the encounter you can check out her intentions with this little test. Step towards her and then quickly step backwards. If she is interested, she will now step forwards to close the gap without even realizing she is doing it. The other trick to try is to lower your voice to a whisper. If she stays right where she is and shouts at you that she can’t hear you, and then she is not going to be getting any closer.

What the Color of her Clothes Say about Her:

Red: She is happy to be the centre of attention and is not afraid of her feelings.
Black: Stylish, chic and original.
Beige: Uncertain.
White: Look at me.
Navy Blue: Business suit.
Light blue: Composed.
Hot Pink: She wants to stand out from the crowd.
Light Pink: Fragile.

The art of flirting and interpreting sexual body language has never been so easy to understand. Never misread the situation again! Apply these dating tips and go out there now!

Good Luck, Coco Swan.

Copyright 2007 Author Coco Swan. If you want a more sensible way to find a new partner than scouring through endless dating sites, you would be best to use special or reviewed dating sites that have been given the once over. Coco writes for and recommends the site 'DatingXLence' for a good outcome. You can see many reviewed online dating services here and it's a free service.
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Afraid to Kiss? You Can Cure Halitosis or Bad Breath Easily and Quickly

By Peter Nisbet

It must be pretty awful to be afraid to kiss, and it is needless since you can cure halitosis or bad breath easily and quickly if you know what to do.

The agony of a guy being afraid when a girl comes close must be terrible, and for a girl too since women also suffer from bad breath. Kissing is a normal thing for teenagers, and for anyone in fact. To be afraid of a kiss must be awful.

Although you cannot smell your own breath, you will know that yours smells bad when people step back from you when you talk, or someone of the opposite sex flinches and turns away when you get close. You have to do something about it other than just brushing your teeth, and do it quick.

What Causes Halitosis?

This article with give you information on how to cure that problem, but first let’s have a look at what causes halitosis and dispel some myths. Halitosis is caused by evil smelling sulfur compounds that are products of the break-down of proteins by bacteria that live in your mouth. Although poor dental care can contribute, it is not the main reason. These bacteria are natural, and are meant to be in your mouth, but in some cases they start to work overtime and break down some proteins too fast, so generating these nasty volatile compounds.

Bacteria Live Deep in you Tongue and Cheeks

The bacteria are anaerobic, which means that they work best in the absence of oxygen, so do not live on the surface, but deep within the tongue, between the papillae or rough bumps on your tongue, in your cheeks and in your throat. That’s why brushing does not help much. They thrive in dry mouths, where the lack of oxygen-containing saliva creates ideal conditions for them. Dry mouths can be caused by some medications such as antihistamines and high blood pressure treatments and also by alcohol. Hence the ‘dog breath’ the morning after a heavy night!

High protein foods also cause halitosis, and the acidity of coffee speeds up the activity of the bacteria. A cheeseburger and coffee is probably worse before a date than eating onions! Sinus problems also create bad breath and it is next to impossible to eradicate after sinus surgery. So what can you do to cure your problem? It is, after all, a serious problem since it can affect your success in romance and also your employment prospects. No employer wants somebody with stinking breath talking to customers, so you have to do something, and do it quick. Luckily there is a cure for bad breath.

How to Cure Bad Breath

The cure lies in the fact that the bacteria are known to be anaerobic. They don’t like oxygen. It figures, therefore, that if you apply a substance that is rich in oxygen it will stop the little guys doing all that damage in your mouth. The compounds that you can smell are called Volatile Sulfur Compounds, or VSCs. If you can stop the bacteria from creating them then you have found the solution.

There are oxygen-rich compounds that can be used for this. If they are applied as a paste to the tongue and cheeks, and removed with a tongue scraper, they are very effective. The treatment can then be backed up by oxygenated mouthwashes and toothpastes to get down into the body of your tongue and cheeks. Brushing your tongue and cheeks with a soft toothbrush is also effective. These compounds can also break down the VSCs into odourless substances.

Once you have your bad breath under control, you can keep it controlled by keeping an eye on the proteins you eat. You don’t have to stop eating high protein foods such as cheese and fish, just be aware that you are eating them and then clean your tongue and cheeks afterwards. This stops any debris accumulating and being decomposed by the bacteria.

Ordinary Toothpaste is not Effective

An ordinary toothpaste in not good enough for this, but pastes are available containing high-oxygen materials. More details are available on my website of you want them, or you could try asking your pharmacist. You must be prepared, however, for an old-fashioned view of halitosis as being due to poor oral hygiene, which it definitely is not. It is a condition that some people have, that is caused by natural friendly bacteria, and certain medical or dietary conditions. In some cases it can be genetic.

Improved oral hygiene might help slightly by masking the problem, but will not cure it. A reduced alcohol intake is only a temporary cure if the condition is caused by excessive alcohol, but not if there is another cause. In that case, alcohol is simply making it worse rather than being the prime cause.

Do Not be Afraid to Kiss

Do not be afraid to kiss. You can cure bad breath or halitosis fairly easily if you go the right way about it. Don’t try to cure it in any other way other than attacking the bacteria with oxygen. You will not kill them since they are there all the time and will easily be regenerated after an antibacterial treatment such as a mouthwash. The only real cure is to use a highly oxygenated compound.

I suffer myself, but have never had a problem with my breath for the past two years.

More information on the cure for bad breath is available on Peter’s website at http://www.welshhealth.com/oral/halitosis.html and general health information on http://www.welshhealth.com
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Top 3 Kissing Tip and Technique

By Savanah Douglas

Have you ever seen the movie 50 first dates? It's about a woman that was in a car accident and her memory lasts for only one day. She ends up dating a man and every evening when he kisses her it is like it is their first kiss. Wouldn't that be nice, if every kiss were the first kiss? If you want to add spark in your love life and keep everything as fresh as it can be then try these three kissing tip and technique to add that spark that you are looking for.

Be Close - Move in close to your partner before you kiss them. Sometimes it is difficult to maintain a great kiss when you are trying to shuffle your feet around to move in closer after you start. By being close in the beginning you will not end up in an uncomfortable position mid-kiss

Be Tender - Treat your partners lips as if they were the most delicate thing that you could think of. Sometimes passion can make you be a little harsh, and while a stronger kiss has its place that usually isn't from the start. Make sure that you are being gentle and follow their signals to know when to kiss with more passion.

Relax it all - Don't just worry about your lips, relax your entire body. When you are tense anywhere on your body it will show in your kiss. Make sure that you relax and enjoy the feeling. If you can master being relaxed while you are kissing, even if you are a little nervous about your technique, you will become a much better kisser.

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Hot Kissing Tips for Girls

By Savanah Douglas

Every girl wants to be a great kisser, and that goes even more so when they are an inexperienced kisser. There isn't much that is worse than trying to kiss someone that you care about (or just dreaming of kissing someone that you haven't kissed yet) and wondering how they will be when they kiss you. Will they be impressed and relaxed when they are kissing you or will it be a turnoff? That is why when I started writing the kissing tips for girls I got to thinking that it is probably best if you know what the guys really want out of a kiss. Here is what I came up with.

Most women tend to kiss out of emotion, and to invoke an emotional response, most guys are more into the passion part of the kiss. The result would still be the same, but it seems that the guys really want to feel the kiss differently than the girls do. When you go to kiss your guy then you should try to invoke more of a passionate response in him than an emotional response, the emotions will come along later. Another thing that you should do when you are kissing a guy is to tease just a little. The kiss is important but the moment that leads up into the kiss is equally as important. That is why you should make sure to linger before kissing, perhaps drawing out the moment for a bit before your lips meet, but not so long that it is uncomfortable.

There is another way to find out what your guy wants when it comes to kissing. Ask him what he wants. Most guys will not be too shy in letting you know what they want in a kiss, and if you follow their lead you can hardly go wrong.

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Erotic Politicians Promote Teen Sex Abstinence Studies

By Maggie Van Ostrand

Do you ever wonder why Congress keeps authorizing so many studies and tests we know nothing about until the results are released? Along with the expensive taxpayer-funded National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism's Rand Report which found that alcoholics could drink in moderation (someone tell that to Uncle Joey who tried it and now lives on the Bowery), Congress recently authorized yet another dumb study.

According to this congressionally ordained study, students who took part in sexual abstinence programs were just as likely to have sex as those who did not, reported the Associated Press on April 13th. My mother could've told that to Congress and she would've done it for nothing.

You may find this hard to believe, but the federal government now spends about $176 million annually on abstinence-until-marriage education. If you ask me, they'd accomplish a lot more if they just bought a bunch of lottery tickets.

Harry Wilson, commissioner of the Family and Youth Services Bureau at the Administration for Children and Families (huh? Yet another government branch?) said that the report confirms that these "interventions" are not like vaccines. Mr. Wilson is not to be confused with William Smith, vice president for public policy at the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States. And neither Mr. Wilson nor Mr. Smith should be confused with Ms. Valerie Huber, executive director of the National Abstinence Education Association. Not that the government is oversized or anything. Why don't they just hire a few Desperate Housewives as advisors instead of all these national organizations which huff and puff till our country falls down? And what business is it of congress what our kids do?

We have enough trouble keeping congress out of our pockets; we don't need them in our thongs.

"America," Mark Twain once said, "is a nation without a distinct criminal class with the possible exception of Congress." He was talking about the same Congress which spends so much of our money on studies telling us that drunks can drink and kids shouldn't have sex. Maybe we'd be better off electing officials who believe drunks can have sex and kids shouldn't drink.

According to the ezine Capitol Hill Blue which monitors the Beltway goings-on, "If anything, the Congress of today is even worse than it was in Twain's time more than a century ago." Back in 1999, Capitol Hill Blue reported that "The 535 men and women who make up the House and Senate of the United States include, at best, a collection of rogues, con artists, scofflaws and bad check artists. At worst, they comprise, as Twain once observed, a distinct criminal class."

Capitol Hill Blue proceeded to check public records, newspaper archives, civil court cases, and criminal records of members of Congress from 1992 to 1999.

They ran credit checks on members and applied the financial and criminal record scoring procedures used by the Department of Defense to determine eligibility for a Top Secret security clearance. Everything was done legally through public records.

What emerged from their investigation was a disturbing portrait of a group of elected officials who routinely avoid payment of debts, write bad checks, abuse their spouses, assault people and openly violate the law.

Capitol Hill Blue named Rep. Corrine Brown (D-Fla), whose trail of bad debts, lies to Congress and misstatements to the Internal Revenue Service spawned a number of investigations. She is still in Congress.

Also named was Rep. James Moran (D-Va) whose wife charged him with abuse, and who has assaulted other members of Congress on the floor of the House. He is still in Congress, too.

The list also included Joe Waldholtz, a con man and husband of former Rep. Enid Greene Waldholtz (R-UT) who kited more than a million dollars in bad checks and ended up in prison.

Others, like former Ohio Senator John Glenn, have driven creditors into bankruptcy because of unpaid debts left over from aborted Presidential campaigns. Even millionaire Senator Ted Kennedy has left a trail of unpaid debts from past campaigns. And yet, we're supposed to address them as "the Honorable" even though members of Congress have gone to jail for child molestation, fraud and other charges?

Even with credit reports so bad they can't get an American Express card on their own, at least 71 members of Congress get a government-issued Amex card without a credit check. 53 have personal and financial problems so serious they would be denied security clearances by the Department of Defense or the Department of Energy if they had to apply through normal channels but as members of Congress they get such clearances simply because they fooled enough people to get elected.

29 members of current and recent Congresses have been accused of spousal abuse in either criminal or civil proceedings. 27 have driving while intoxicated arrests on their driving records. 21 are defendants in various lawsuits, ranging from bad debts, disputes with business partners or other civil matters. 19 members of current and recent Congresses have been accused of writing bad checks, even after the scandal several years ago, which resulted in closure of the informal House bank that routinely allowed members to overdraw their accounts without penalty. 14 have drug-related arrests in their background, eight were arrested for shoplifting, seven for fraud, four for theft, three for assault and one for criminal trespass.

These are the people who are judging our children.

This coming summer, Congress will consider renewing the block grant program for sex abstinence education known as Title V. The federal government has authorized up to $50 million annually for the program.

If we want our kids to abstain from sex, it will take a lot more than a study commissioned by erotic politicians who more often than not have an open-mouthed intern waiting under their desk.

It will take the realization that when a guy asks a girl to service his Johnson, he's not talking about the motor in his speedboat.

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Maggie Van Ostrand's award-winning humor column appears in local hard copy newspapers and online publications in the United States, Mexico and Canada.

Her articles appear regularly in the Chicago Tribune, and have appeared in the Boston Globe, Newsday, the Philadelpha Inquirer, Amarillo Globe-News, Sun-Sentinel, and many other national newspapers, as well as national and niche magazines.

A prolific writer, Maggie churns out three humor and one human interest columns weekly, plus a monthly humor column.

She is a member of National Society of Newspaper Columnists, the Erma Bombeck Writers Workshop, and the Society of Women Writers and Journalists in the U.K.

Maggie was also a judge of the worldwide Erma Bombeck Writers' Contest in 2004, 2005 and 2006, and judge of 2007 Arizona Press Club Award for journalism.
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Women At Clubs And Bars And Who She Will Go Home With

By Teddy Shabba

A lot of times the man a woman goes home and has sex with from the bar or club isn't the man she wanted to go home with.

Many times any number of men could have gone home with her besides the one she was with.

In fact, many of the guys she talked to wanted to take her home and could have as well, but settled for much less.

A few guys will settle for conversation and a phone number while many more will simply settle to look at her even though she would have gone home with them as well.

So what did the guy who took her home do that was so special and "won her over".

He had the balls to ask her if she wanted to have sex right now.

Which was all she was really looking for was a man with a set of balls for the night.

Now, it is important to understand, rarely is it wise to straight out ask a woman if she wants to have sex yet at the same time getting a woman to leave with you from the club right now in general implies that having sex is likely to happen.

What it all comes down to at the bar or club is what are you willing to settle for when you go to the bar or club.

If what you want is to take a woman home at some point early on you are going to have to lead the conversation that way.

Otherwise, you will find yourself spending too much time with women who aren't giving you what you want.

She already knows what you want and if she is going to give to you (if you ask).

The only real question is if you are willing to find out.
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